Popping your…Apple?

For all those people who don’t think crazy virginity-related shit goes on outside Muslim countries, this report from Jezebel, excerpted below:

We weren’t familiar with the Armenian ritual of the “red apple,” in which – even today – the groom’s family inspects a bridal couple’s bedsheets to ascertain the bride’s virginity. If the requisite virginal blood is found, tradition dictates that the groom’s family send the bride a bowl of red apples. “

To mark International Women’s Day, a group of women staged a “burying the red apple” march, in which they quite literally submerged a series of the symbolic objects in soil, to protest the inherent double-standard of the archaic tradition.

The ritual may seem archaic to us, but the march has generated controversy. Said one agitated bystander, somewhat baffingly, to a Global Voices reporter, “Let them march and the next thing you know, narcotics addicts will want to stage their own demonstrations too.”

While some say the concern is overblown – that very few families actually hold to the tradition – a post on Armenia.newseurasia.net is eye-opening: one blogger talks about being forced to help a bride manufacture a bloodstain and a commenter adds, “I’ve had a number of girlfriends in Armenia intentionally bleed on the sheets on their wedding night so that their new in-laws see. Sometimes this involves cutting a finger.”

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  1. Anonymous
    Posted March 17, 2009 at 12:58 am | Permalink

    I know an older couple who told me that the groom cut his finger to show blood.

    besides being a double standard, it’s ridiculous because even if the girl is a virgin she may not bleed. I didn’t bleed my first time, so what a ridiculous way to prove it.

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