Today we're highlighting Sasha in California, who explains the reasons for her virginity as threefold. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. Tell us about yourself:
My age is 20 and I live in California.
How do you define virginity?
I define virginity as not having had sexual intercourse.
Tell us your story
My story is that I am still a virgin due to several reasons. The one I tell myself the most is that I still have yet to have the right opportunity and circumstances. It so far has always been that I do not reciprocate the feelings to the guys that have liked me. And if I do they never tell me how they feel and/or end up moving away.
The next reason is that while I am not waiting for any religious reason, I still want to wait to have sex with someone I really connect with.
And the third and most unfortunate reason of all is that I am terribly self conscious of my keratosis pilaris, or chicken skin. It is mainly on my upper arms and legs. It is not as bad as it was when I was younger but I picked at my skin so much that I still have scars on my thighs. I am absolutely embarrassed by it and I can't imagine that someone would start to be intimate with me and not be grossed out by it.
Despite all this I have an incredibly high sex drive and I think about it all the time. It's becoming embarrassing now that I live in a house of sexually active females and I'm "The Virgin."