Today we're highlighting Vannessa, a 21-year-old woman from California who was happy she waited for the right guy to 'swipe her V-Card.' If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. Tell us about yourself:
I'm a 21-year-old California girl & college student!
How do you define virginity?
Up until I had an actual penis inside my vagina, I defined virginity as anything sexual done with another person: Oral sex, fingering, hand jobs, and even phone sex! All of which I have participated in simply to be one of the cool high school girls.
Tell us your story:
About a month after my 20th birthday, my sex-craving military boyfriend called it quits. I was devastated but thankful that I stood my ground on NOT letting him take my virginity. Soon after I met an employee next door from where I worked and immediately felt 100% certain he was the man I wanted to have sex with for the first time. Weeks passed and although we've had steamy make out sessions, it never turned into me swiping my V-Card. It took 3, maybe more, nights filled with sexy mood music & candles until his penis finally entered my vagina! The initial process was painful and as the days of sex wore on, my vagina began to really enjoy it!
It has only been a year and a half but I am still SO thankful I didn't give in to that sex-crazed military ex of mine and waited for the man whom I hope to share the rest of my life with.