Today we're highlighting Rose in Utah, whose vagina was not happy after her first time, but luckily the rest of her still had fun. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. Tell us about yourself:
I am 30, female and live in Utah.
How do you define virginity?
First there are several different kinds of virginity: oral, anal and vaginal. Virginity means no penetration by a sexual organ to any, all, or one of these. So you could be a vaginal virgin but have had anal sex.
Tell us your story
I was 18 and dating a boy who was very experienced and a year younger than myself. We had done some serious heavy petting beforehand. So I knew what oral sex was like and what an orgasm felt like.
I just woke up one morning and went... Today is the day. I love him, I want him...I am ready. I was already on birth control for cramps so I wasn’t worried about protection. Plus I knew he has recently been tested.
My first time was in October, after school, in his bed at his mom's house with my t-shirt and panties still on. It wasn't bad. Kind of hurt and kind of felt nice, he tried really hard to make sure I had a good time. It was awkward, but not by much since we’d been dating a little over three months.
The worst was peeing afterwards, such a painful experience! My poor abused vagina just hated the touch of the acidic urine. I climbed back into bed with him and he was so kind and gentle. After a few minutes, as my body relaxed and the pain went away I turned and asked, "When can we do that again?"