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V-Card Diaries: Marissa "He couldn't find the 'hole' and I wasn't much help."

 Today we're highlighting Marissa in Boulder, CO. Her first sex was painful and bloody, but she's happy she lost her virginity to a nice boyfriend. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here.A little about myself:

I am a 24-year-old female who lives in Boulder, CO.

How I define virginity:

Not having vaginal intercourse.

Here's my story:

So, I didn't have the best self esteem at 17, and I finally had my first real boyfriend. I really wanted him to stay with me, so, within a couple of weeks, we had sex and it was interesting.

We were both virgins. He couldn't really find the "hole" and I wasn't much help. We had sex and it was painful for me. When we were finished he went to the bathroom and so did I. I found a huge puddle of blood and freaked out! It was everywhere.

We talked about it months afterwards and he said that he "never thought he'd have a chance to have sex with me and felt bad that I thought he wouldn't want to stay with me because of sex." He also noticed the blood, it was all over him too. He didn't care though. Overall, it's funny, sad, but overall I'm happy I lost my virginity to him.