Today we're highlighting Kitty in the Bible Belt. She and her boyfriend consider themselves "two goofballs in love." If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself:
Hi! I'm an 18 year old girl living in the Bible Belt. I love singing, laughing, and being happy!
How I define virginity:
Virginity is a state of mind. Virginity is like being a vegetarian. You can say you're a vegetarian and BE a vegetarian even if you eat meat once or if you ate fish and said "eh, that's not really meat." Vegetarians define their own limitations, why is virginity something society chooses rather than the people involved?
Here's my story:
I was 14 and it was spring break when I had sex the first time. But in that whole relationship, I never once orgasmed so I didn't really think of it as real sex, hence no virginity lost. Also I don't really remember that story either! My boyfriend of today and I lost our virginities together. We parked in an abandoned parking lot and he had sheets and pillows to make it comfy. Oh was a horrible night!
It was awfully funny and horrible unsatisfying. He was way too large for my vagina and I was way too obvious about the pain. He couldn't keep it up because 1) all the blood an 2) my obvious pain. We tried so hard to make it work but we ended up laughing at the awkwardness of the whole situation. We tried so hard to make it so romantic when really we are just two goofballs in love who don't need passionate crazy romantic sex to be happy. We left with neither of us finishing but I've never been so fulfilled emotionally in my life. That's how I want to remember losing my virginity.