Category Archives: V-Card Diaries

V-Card Diaries: Imogen “As it turns out, when you post an ad as a 22-year-old redheaded virgin, people get interested really quickly.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Imogen in New Zealand. Although she grew up in a conservative home, in her 20s she made a conscious effort to lose her virginity with someone she met on Craigslist. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about […]

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V-Card Diaries: Distracted Dragon “I’m offended by responses to my vaginismus, when coupled with my “virginity” and queerness.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Distracted Dragon in New York, NY, writes that our society slut shames and virgin shames at the same time, speaking out of both sides of our mouth. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about yourself: 25. […]

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V-Card Diaries: Fourth Time’s The Charm “Fresh out of high school at 17, I met a guy at a sword fighting club.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Fourth Time’s The Charm in the US. After the three painful attempts, the fourth time was amazing thanks to the guy she’s still dating.  If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Tom “I’m waiting for the right woman while broadcasting on web cam sex sites.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Tom in Michigan, who was told he was still at virgin at 27 because he was too picky. Now he meets women by broadcasting on web cam sex sites. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am […]

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V-Card Diaries: Victoria “I folded up a note and passed it to him, asking if he wanted to makeout after school.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Victoria in Atlanta, Georgia who made sure she got permission from her best friend before making moves on a boy her friend used to like. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am a 15-year-old female from […]

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V-Card Diaries: Cheeky Charmer “I thought I had tempted my rapist by showing skin. I was eleven years old.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Cheeky Charmer in Pennsylvania. She blamed herself for a rape that happened at a young age based on teachings from a week-long Christian purity seminar. She now knows that her choice to have sex or not does not define her worth. If you want to tell your story, go to our […]

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V-Card Diaries: Cherry-Jill “I asked my ObGyn to break my hymen for me so I would technically not be a virgin.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from 36-year-old Cherry-Jill in Capetown, South Africa who whose experienced kissing, dry humping, and sexting, but nothing else. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m a 36-year-old bi caucasian female from Cape […]

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V-Card Diaries: Astarte “I’ve literally been getting a degree in Sexuality but I don’t think I’ll ever have sex.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Astarte in Arizona. She feels she doesn’t have the social skills to jump start a sexual life, and isn’t sure if she even wants to bother trying. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about […]

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V-Card Diaries: The Shadow “She was much older than I was. It was a Mrs Robinson situation.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from The Shadow in the San Francisco Bay Area. There was a lot of pressure not to be a virgin at his all boys’ school, so he was glad to lose his virginity at a pool party. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love […]

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V-Card Diaries: Jayme “I had sex with the first boy I kissed. A Scottish guy in a kilt I met in Rome.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Jayme in the Bay Area in California, who lost her virginity in a ‘pathetic but memorable’ way while studying abroad in Rome. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: A 22-year-old female […]

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V-Card Diaries: Suzie-Q “As a president of a sorority I hide away the fact that I haven’t yet had sex”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Suzie-Q from the US Pacific Northwest in the US, who feels out of control because she hasn’t been able to get romantically involved with someone. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m […]

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V-Card Diaries: Sean ” This was what I’d do: One night with a stranger and it would be over.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Sean in Australia whose sexual encouters have felt ‘irritating, dissapointing and pointless.’ If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 23, FTM, Australia How I define virginity: For me it is extended genital […]

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V-Card Diaries: Marissa “He couldn’t find the ‘hole’ and I wasn’t much help.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Marissa in Boulder, CO. Her first sex was painful and bloody, but she’s happy she lost her virginity to a nice boyfriend.  If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Diana “I was sexually abused as a child and am still working through this.”

*Trigger warning for sexual assault* Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Diana in Europe, who is overcoming some sexual issues after a childhood trauma and a family who was very prudish about sex. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little […]

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V-Card Diaries: Too Busy to Worry “Because I have a poor body image, I seriously consider getting an escort.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Too Busy to Worry in Tampa, FL, who is looking for someone she’ll be comfortable being naked around. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am 27 years old, female, cis-gender, […]

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V-Card Diaries: Rosa “My kissing number’s already up to 50. I’ll stick to safe sexual fun.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Rosa in New Jersey. For her, kissing is a safe way to have sexual fun until she finds Mr. Right. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 19 years old, female, and I’m […]

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V-Card Diaries: TeddyBear “I’m rather asexual, though cuddling is nice.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from TeddyBear in New York City, who has never wanted to be sexually involved with anyone. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: Age 55, male, live in New York City. How I define […]

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V-Card Diaries: Jessie ” It was not until I began to go to therapy that I reclaimed that part of my sexuality.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Jessie from California, who was molested at 6, but learned she was not dirty or a slut with the help of her therapist. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am […]

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V-Card Diaries: Grizzy “Social pressures were telling me that my love for women wasn’t real because I hadn’t experienced being with a man.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Grizzy in Los Angeles, who needed to be with a guy because of social pressures about her queer sexuality. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: Well, I’m 22, a cis woman […]

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V-Card Diaries: Mari “Intercourse triggered what I would later come to understand as a serious gender dysphoria episode.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Mari in Michigan, a queer trans woman who thinks virginity is an ‘absolute bullshit notion’ steeped in misogyny. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m a 31, and a queer trans […]

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V-Card Talkback: “Being a virgin at 20 may put you slightly on the trailing edge of the bell curve, but it hardly makes you a space alien or an object of ridicule.”

We got such a great comment for our last V-Card Diaries from Katherine titled “I’m so afraid of rejection that I don’t know how to approach a guy I’m interested in”, that we’re sharing it as a post so no one misses it. It’s from one of our contributors MHiggo, and we hope it’ll have […]

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V-Card Diaries: Katherine “I’m so afraid of rejection that I don’t know how to approach a guy I’m interested in.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Katherine in Europe. She doesn’t think that men find her attractive and is afraid that her lack of sexual experience will make it even more difficult for her to find intimacy. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this […]

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V-Card Diaries: Audra Mae “I was unprepared for the mind blowing sensation of having someone else touching me.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Audra Mae in the Ohio, whose bad feelings about her first partner can’t erase the awe-inspiring sensations and amazing memories. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 18; bisexual female; Ohio How I […]

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V-Card Diaries: Brackish “The first time I had a penis in my vagina was rape.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Brackish in the Bronx in New York City, who had a lot of PIV sex to prove it meant nothing. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m 20 years old, I […]

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V-Card Diaries: Miss Wrong “He continuously texted me saying if I was pregnant, I would be ruining his life.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Miss Wrong in Jerome, Idaho, who regrets that she had sex for the first time with a guy who turned out to be a horrible jerk. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about […]

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V-Card Diaries: Peace “It took me a year to agree to kiss a guy.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Peace in NYC, whose mother only hinted to her about sex, and only when she was tipsy. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 18, female, NYC How I define virginity: Virginity… is […]

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V-Card Diaries: Lauren “There were 3 boys and a girl and I slept with all of them.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Lauren in England, who doesn’t have regrets about having her sexual debut with multiple people she barely knew because they made her feel safe and secure. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about […]

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V-Card Diaries: Sodi “I’ve only been sexually active with girls, but with all of them I was the boy.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Sodi in Melbourne, Australia. Although she’s been sexually active since she was 13, her current girlfriend was the first one to touch her. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Dru “Losing your virginity in the Bible Belt is a huge deal, something girls instantly regret afterwards”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Dru in North Texas, who thought the inaccurate advice she got in Sex Ed was appalling and disgusting. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am 21 years old, a woman, and […]

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V-Card Diaries: Erinn “How do I lose my virginity if I don’t have a vagina? How my body helped me redefine my first time.”

News recently broke about the successful implantation of lab-grown vaginas into four teenage girls with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) syndrome (a rare genetic condition in which the vagina and uterus either under-develop or fail to develop at all). We’re reposting a fascinating V-Card Diaries from Erinn, who has this condition, and writes about the ways she rethought […]

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