Category Archives: V-Card Diaries

V-Card Diaries: Dru “Losing your virginity in the Bible Belt is a huge deal, something girls instantly regret afterwards”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Dru in North Texas, who thought the inaccurate advice she got in Sex Ed was appalling and disgusting. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am 21 years old, a woman, and […]

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V-Card Diaries: Erinn “How do I lose my virginity if I don’t have a vagina? How my body helped me redefine my first time.”

News recently broke about the successful implantation of lab-grown vaginas into four teenage girls with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) syndrome (a rare genetic condition in which the vagina and uterus either under-develop or fail to develop at all). We’re reposting a fascinating V-Card Diaries from Erinn, who has this condition, and writes about the ways she rethought […]

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V-Card Diaries: Francesca “At 14, I was trying to avoid thoughts of being a lesbian and loving a girl.”

*Trigger warning for sexual and other violence* Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Francesca from an Eastern European country, currently living in rural America, who suffered a great deal of abuse before meeting a man she loves. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Kisa “I lost my virginity while watching Star Wars on a Saturday, and it was the most perfect moment to do it.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Kisa on the East Coast who thought her first time was perfect, but doesn’t think all her friends would understand why she didn’t wait. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: My name […]

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V-Card Diaires: Garrett “I thought of him as my second sexual partner, not as the man I gave my gay virginity to.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Garrett from California who realized that casual sex didn’t make him feel unclean or ashamed–just stupid. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am a 21-year-old bisexual male from California. I […]

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V-Card Diaries: Miss Understood “I am a liberal atheist with multiple tattoos and a potty mouth, but I’ve never even kissed a boy.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Miss Understood in Texas who hasn’t so far found a guy worth having. When she does, then ‘hallelujah.’ If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am twenty years old, almost 21!!! […]

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V-Card Diaries: Ms. Beavers “It was painful for me, nerve-wracking, and beautiful–and sex got much better after the initial pain!”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Ms. Beavers in Bakersfield, CA. Her sexual debut was nothing was painful and nothing like the movies, but still a pure bonding experience. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about yourself: I am a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Harriet “This makes me sound like a brainless, heartless monster, but someone ought to know the whole story”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Harriet in England, who feels like she lost her innocence by cheating on her boyfriend, not performing an act for the first time. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Alyssa “I think I might be asexual, because I never have any urges for sexual pleasure.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Alyssa in New York who feels pressure, especially in college, to lose her virginity. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 19, Female, New York, College Student, Virgin, Asexual. How I define virginity: […]

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V-Card Diaries: Fern Lady “When I was around 5 years old, I hated clothes. That was my most exploratory time so far in my life.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Fern Lady in Berkeley, California, who had her most exploratory time when she was 5-7 years old, but never had a lover or seen a naked man after that. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A […]

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V-Card Diaries: Xyla “We had seen each other completely naked. It was hard to see how anything could be more intimate than that.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Xyla in the Great Lakes region. She thinks young people should have fun, but most of all should be kind to each other. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m 42, […]

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V-Card Diaries: Chaser “When I came out, my definitions of virginity had to change. What counts if you don’t have a penis involved?”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Chaser in the US. Although she is religious and becoming a pastor, she felt never pressure from the church to abstain. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I am a 27 […]

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V-Card Diaries: Jennifer “I lost my virginity when I was 20, before I even went on my first date.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Jennifer in North Carolina, who broke free of her religious upbringing and came to terms with her body being HER body. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m 24, from North […]

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V-Card Diaries: Mitch “I was sure I was the oldest male virgin outside of the Vatican.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Mitch in the US. He lost his virginity with a woman he met at a single event and  is glad it happened with a woman he cared about. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little […]

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V-Card Diaries: Caroline “As we were lying on his couch together after, we high-fived.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Caroline in North Jersey. After some pizza interference she lost her virginity to her boyfriend in his basement. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m 18 and from North Jersey. How […]

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V-Card Diaries: Joy “During the day my parents told me only whores had sex before marriage, but at night my mom gave me “lessons”.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Joy in the US, who hopes she can find a guy who can navigate her difficult past in a dysfunctional home. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m 26-year-old woman from the […]

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V-Card Diaries: Cas “I was abused, sometimes in front of the teacher, with no intervention.”

**Trigger warning for sexual assault and self-harm** Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Cas in Edmonton, Canada, who was sexually abused at age six and raped at age twelve. Now, at fifteen, Cas is no longer afraid. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this […]

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V-Card Diaries: Late Blooming Lesbian “My ring went from ‘True Love Waits’ to ‘I’m an adult who can make adult decisions’ “

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Late Blooming Lesbian in Texas, who started dating late, but knows she is a lesbian through and through. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: 25, Female, Texas How I define virginity? […]

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V-Card Diaries: t’ix^wlm “As an asexual and aromantic, I look at the concept of sex and ultimately my response is ‘Eww.’ I want nothing to do with it.

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from t’ix^wlm in Washington state, who has never wanted to have sex in any form. If you want to tell your story, especially if yougo to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about myself: I’m a 27 (going on 28) year old third-gender multi-racial […]

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V-Card Diaires: Alana “Is it in? I can’t tell,” I said. “Nope,” he replied.

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Alana in the US, who once bought a dilator vibrator to help with intercourse but broke it the first time she used it. Is that a sign? If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. A little about […]

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V-Card Diaries: Eddie ” “I am one of those few men that still values my own virginity like a treasure.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Eddie in Houston, who believes that virginity is a treasure you share with the person who is The One. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me:  I’m 17, male and Latin. I live in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Elle “Someone who cared about my well-being was all I wanted for my first time.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Elle on the East Coast of the United States, whose first time taught her about the power of being open, honest, and talking things out. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me: 23. Female. […]

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V-Card Diaries: Tam “It hurt like hell, but God it was good.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Tam in Sydney, Australia, who’s first time may not have been sweet, but it was ‘good.’ If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me: I’m a 24-year-old female from Sydney, Australia. How I define virginity: […]

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V-Card Diaries: HFB “I believe that if I wait to have sex when I’m married then God will bless my marriage.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from HFB in Georgia, who is in a growing relationship–with Christ. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me: I am an 18-year-old black girl from Southwest Georgia. How I define virginity: A virgin (to me) […]

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V-Card Diaries: Naren “My 5 kisses were on stage in front of 500 people. I was 13, playing Liesl; the guy was 19, playing Rolf.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Naren from Canada, who is in a relationship with a really caring guy who respects her boundaries. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me: I’m 19, and live somewhere different every 2-3 months. So far, […]

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V-Card Diaries: AM “I’ve begun to think nothing of sex, it’s about pleasure, not intimacy. Sleeping with someone I actually care about is terrifying”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from AM from Ann Arbor, MI, whose first time was about lust and quite nice. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. About me: I’m a 20-year-old female (will be 21 in about two weeks). I’m currently living in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Dakora “I haven’t done anything more with a guy than eye contact.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Dakora in Australia, who was surprised her ninth grade classmates were having sex, but feels “losing” one’s virginity at any age shouldn’t be such a big deal. We hope she lets us know how things turn out! If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. […]

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V-Card Diaries: Taylor “I’m trying not to find sex synonymous with ‘gross’ anymore.”

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Taylor in Orange County, California, who hopes to overcome religious anxieties in order to have a healthy sex life. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. Tell us about yourself: I’m 18.5 years old, female and […]

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V-Card Diaries: Shanna “I remember screaming ‘I’m having an orgy!’ And my boyfriend laughed: ‘Not an orgy, honey. An orgasm.’

Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Shanna from Tel Aviv, Israel. Not only does she run a fantastic sexuality organization called You Got Choices, but she is the organizer of our Sept. 30th Tel Aviv screening. We’re so excited about doing this event with her and other fantastic feminist, sexuality professionals and folks who want […]

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V-Card Diaries: Rachel “I wasn’t paying too much attention when something very different than a finger slid right into me.”

**Trigger warning** Our latest V-Card Diaries comes from Rachel in Israel, who who didn’t want to lose her virginity, but certainly enjoyed what she was doing. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. We’d love to run it in this blog. Editor’s note: We’re grateful that Rachel shared her story, […]

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