Category Archives: V-Card Diaries

V-Card Diaries: Ariel “I’m a spiteful virgin. I am so angry with men that I would not give them the satisfaction of sex.”

Today we’re highlighting Ariel from Jersey City, NJ, who wonders how special virginity could be if it only takes a second to lose it. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am 23, female from Jersey City. How I define virginity: I […]

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V-Card Diaries: Megan “I met him in a network on tumblr. It was pretty unconventional, but it was right for me”

Today we’re highlighting Megan in Cambridge MA who clicked with her guy instantly. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: 18, female, Jewish, currently in college at Harvard, bisexual, sexually fluid, heteroromantic, happily taken (by a different boy) How I define virginity: […]

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V-Card Diaries: Alisha “We broke up on numerous occasions to keep ourselves from sin yet ached for each other”

Today we’re highlighting Alisha from Utah who was taught that virginity was key to her salvation. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am a 22-year-old female, now married and not religious although my husband is still Christian. I was raised […]

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V-Card Diaries: Victoria “I lost my virginity at 14 to my boyfriend of a year. We were young as hell and in love as hell.”

Today we’re highlighting Victoria from California lost her virginity at age 14 to the love of her life. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: My name is Victoria, a female. I’m 16 years old and I live in a small, small […]

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V-Card Diaries: Aura “I asked my Indian mother her opinion on pre-marital sex, and she told me she thought it should be made compulsory”

Today we’re highlighting Aura from India, currently living in the north of England, whose mother explained the importance of pre-marital sex with the help of a shoe analogy. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am a 20-year-old Indian girl, currently […]

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V-Card Diaries: Sully “I’m a guy, so why is it so difficult for me to remove this social stigma?”

Today we’re highlighting Sully in Potsdam, NY. First he chose to wait to have sex until he is able to take care for a girl if she gets pregnant, but now he feels like virginity is an awkward cloud looming over him. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find […]

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V-Card Diaries: SarahD “I felt awkward, and uncouth, and the braces didn’t make oral any more graceful”

Today we’re highlighting SarahD in Albany, New York, who expected the first time she had sex to be a one night stand, but instead it turned out to be the beginning of a relationship she is still in today. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. […]

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V-Card Diaries: MyBodyNotYours “Part of me is shut off to sex, because I was sexually molested by a relative when I was 8.”

*Trigger warning for Sexual Assault*Today we’re highlighting MyBodyNotYours in Austin, Texas who doesn’t feel emotionally ready to have sex after being sexually molested as a child. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: Female, 21, Austin, Tx How I define virginity: Consented intercourse (penis in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Katherine “I’m a Mormon and a proud virgin but I have not been able to turn off my sexual thoughts.”

Today we’re highlighting Katherine in Arizona, who has been exchanging sexual fantasies with an old friend but isn’t planning to act on them. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 28-year-old heterosexual female, born and raised in Arizona. How I define […]

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V-Card Diaries: Noodlegirl “I was so clueless, I had to Google what I had felt to see if I’d had an orgasm.”

Today we’re highlighting Noodlegirl from a US East Coast city whose most positive feeling about her breakup was relief she didn’t have sex with her boyfriend.  If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am a 22-year-old woman who recently graduated from college and […]

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V-Card Diaries: G “I’m not looking for a fairytale, just to meet someone to end my loneliness.”

Today we’re highlighting G in Canada, who is so cheerful and outgoing outwardly, she thinks people would be shocked if the knew how lonely and sad she really is. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: 25, female, from Canada. How I define virginity: […]

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V-Card Diaries: Shadow “His touches left my skin on fire and his kisses electrified me.”

Today we’re highlighting Shadow in Chicago. Despite her mother’s opinions on virginity, which had left her feeling nervous for her first time, she was calm when the actual moment came. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here.   A little about myself: I’m a 16-year-old female. […]

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V-Card Diaries: ComplexCat “Being flirtatious and a virgin seems to be a bad combination.”

Today we’re highlighting ComplexCat in Chicago, IL. Although she was raised in a household that had strict opinions about sex, she has chosen to no longer measure her worth by her virginity. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m and 18-year-old […]

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V-Card Diaries: Alessia “He reminded me of Christian Grey, but the way he kissed alone made my knees weak.”

Today we’re highlighting Alessia in Long Island, NY whose first-time experience, after a month of texting, was “romantic, sexy, gentle, passionate, and rough all at the same time.” If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am a 21-year-old woman living in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Christine “My social anxiety kept me from forming intimate sexual relationships.”

Today we’re highlighting Christine in Wisconsin, who feels she’ll be single for a long while and hopes to experience a fulfilling sexuality even without a partner. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 29-year-old female living in Wisconsin. I’m a librarian. How I define […]

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V-Card Diaries: Sammie “I haven’t had sex because any man who has ever touched me intimately has hurt me”

Today we’re highlighting Sammie in New England who is, for the time being, perfectly happy with her vibrator and erotica. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 31-year-old female from California living in New England How I define virginity: I suppose I am technically […]

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V-Card Diaries: Chloe “I don’t feel pressure to have sex, and I don’t know that many people who have had sex.”

Today we’re highlighting Chloe in New Zealand, who kind of wants to have sex for the first time just for the experience, though she’s been told she will regret it. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 17-year-old New Zealander. How I define virginity: Having sexual […]

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V-Card Diaries: Jenny “Within twenty minutes he was asking if I’d like to go home with him. I immediately agreed.”

Today we’re highlighting Jenny in London, who feels that that if you’re willing to put your nervousness to rest and let your impulses take over, you’ll probably have a lot more fun. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m Jenny, I’m 20, […]

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V-Card Diaries: Lucky “We were 14 and 15 and in love. It took us a year to go all the way.”

Today we’re highlighting Lucky in Wisconsin, who had a dedicated, engaged partner who wanted her to be happy, satisfied and connected in a sexual way. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 30 year old business owner, who happens to be a divorced […]

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V-Card Diaries: James “My valedictorian medal had a big V on it, which could have also stood for virgin”

Today we’re highlighting James in Canada, whose romantic encounter with a woman at a bonfire ended in disappointment, but also reassurance that someone found him attractive. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 19 year-old boy from Canada who is a second […]

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V-Card Diaries: Lijola “I lost my virginity with a guy I met over the internet and I know how that sounds.”

Today we’re highlighting Lijola in The Netherlands who believes you should celebrate your body, but also make sure it’s in trusted hands. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 20 years old straight woman. I’m Polish, living and studying in the […]

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V-Card Diaries: Haley “Virginity is a gift. Whether finding one or being one.”

Today we’re highlighting Haley who really wants to date a nice guy so her first time is special and not something she’ll regret. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I’m a 21-year-old girl from Ohio. I like to read, I’m fun and […]

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V-Card Diaries: Gwen “I wasn’t raised in a sexually repressive atmosphere. Quite the opposite.”

Today we’re highlighting Gwen in Sweden whose first sexual partner was an Eminem wannabe she met at a Bartles and James wine cooler party. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: 39-year-old dual American-Swedish citizen living in Sweden. After two unhappy long […]

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V-Card Diaries: Molly “My Christian ethics class taught me that virginity was more valuable than my weight in gold”

Today we’re highlighting Molly who was told losing her v-card would be like losing her soul, but she doesn’t feel bad or different.  If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: So, I’m 19, almost 20. I live in the prairies, (800 people in […]

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V-Card Diaries: Janelle “The first time I masturbated, I had no idea what I’d just done (which was orgasm)”

*Trigger warning for sexual assault*Today we’re highlighting Janelle who overcame her confusion and fear by educating herself ‘of the sexual realms.’ If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: Hi! I’m Janelle and I fair from Pennsylvania. Currently, I am 22 years old and […]

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V-Card Diaries: Stephanie “Abstinence-only sex ed made me feel worthless and used up, but when I initiated sex with my (now) husband, I felt like I had claimed my sexuality.”

*Trigger warning for sexual assault* Today we’re highlighting Stephanie in upstate New York, who never felt like she’d had a chance to have a virginity. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: 26, Female, Married, Upstate NY How I define virginity: The church […]

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V-Card Diaries: 18 Birthday “I remember taking my clothes off, even my necklace, but for whatever reason I left on my glasses.”

Today we’re highlighting 18 Birthday In My Birthday Suit, who at 38 has learned that it’s quality, not quantity. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: I am a 38 years old living in Kentucky who believes that sex is not a […]

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V-Card Diaries: Laura “I see a hot guy and the dirtiest thing that crosses my mind is I just want to stare at him all day.”

Today we’re highlighting Laura in Florida, who thinks she’s demi-sexual because she needs a connection to become aroused. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: 21, Female, Florida How I define virginity: I’m not sure how to define virginity. It’s complicated, I believe […]

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V-Card Diaries: Kitty Meowery “We tried so hard to make it work but we ended up laughing at the awkwardness of the whole situation.”

Today we’re highlighting Kitty in the Bible Belt. She and her boyfriend consider themselves “two goofballs in love.” If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: Hi! I’m an 18 year old girl living in the Bible Belt. I love singing, laughing, and being […]

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V-Card Diaries: Sally “In Lebanon, people raise their girls on the idea that they can not be sexual beings the way boys are.”

Today we’re highlighting Sally in Lebanon, who gets a reaction like a ‘you’re a hooker’ if she talks about sex in front of boys. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. A little about myself: Hello, my name is Sally. I’m from Lebanon, in the Middle East. […]

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