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V-Card Diaries: "I have no one to blame but myself"

Another installment in our series of V-Card Diaries interviews on virginity. This one came by way of our comments section and is somewhat disturbing. If you're out there, drop us a line and let us know you're OK. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form I'm a 38 yo male virgin. Awkwardness/shyness of my youth, so I have no one to blame but myself. That eventually lead to the lack of experience that brought me to where I am today. I went to college, have a great job, run, hit the gym twice a week, volunteer, etc. But after decades without a date, nothing holds joy anymore. I've given my last penny from my 'emotional bank account' long ago without making any deposits.

As I look back, the burden has grown to be too much. All my friends have families. They MUST talk about me. I'm too old to 'begin dating.' If I could think of a way to do myself in without my family knowing, I would do it tomorrow.

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