"There are no perfect sexual choices. So, whatever we do, we might still have regrets. However, there are certainly things we can do and can avoid doing to make it far more likely for our sexual choices, whatever they are, to feel good for us, before, during and afterward. And one of the biggest factors in a feel-great-about-it choice is making sure it really seems and feels like OUR best choice, the one WE really want and also really feel ready for, not someone's else's choice."
Part of Scarleteen.com's response to a 15-year-old girl who wants to become more sexual but feels scared and unprepared. Read the whole response here. (We love Scarleteen!)