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V-Card Diaries: Stephanie "I lost my essence of a gradual rate."

Today we're highlighting Stephanie in Pittsburgh, who believes she lost her virginity over the course of a year. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here. Tell us about yourself:

I am 27 years old, and am in graduate school in Pittsburgh, PA.

How do you define virginity?

Virginity is the essence of purity, naivety, and lack of sexual/intimate experience. When I was younger, I simply thought it was vaginal intercourse.

Tell us your story

When I look back, I truly lost my essence of purity in my first year of college, at a gradual rate. I was interested in my own sexual energy, and connecting with others on a sexual level. At the time I thought I was still a virgin because I had never been penetrated by a penis, but even my boyfriend, when I told him I was a virgin, said he was surprised because I emitted such sexual energy. When we finally had sex, it was for only about 40 seconds, and was fairly disappointing. I had much more meaningful sexual experiences with him simply making out.