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V-Card Diaries: KJB "I might still wait until marriage, but pre-marital sex is no longer a taboo to me."

Today we're highlighting KJB from Arizona, who shed her Catholic guilt but still wants her first time to be meaningful. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here.

Tell us about yourself:

I'm 18, live in Arizona, and I'm a virgin.

How do you define virginity?

Your status before you have sex (including oral).

Tell us your story

I was raised Catholic, and for a long time, I wanted to wait till after marriage to give myself to my husband. Now I'm thinking in more realistic terms. Believe me, I'd still wait till marriage if that is what we both want, but pre-marital sex is no longer a taboo to me.

I've heard stories of how it will hurt the first time, and even worse stories of how one or the other person is just using the other to get off. These things make me want to be sure in myself and my partner, and be in a committed relationship. Even though I don't think it will be a wedding night deal for me anymore, I still want it to be special. I want it to be more than just trying to get rid of a status that shouldn't define who you are as a person.

I want to end this with a bit of an "Easy A" kind of feel to it. I'm currently dating a very sweet guy right now. I don't know if I'll lose my virginity to him or not. Regardless, it is no one's business.