"One quibble: If technically you're still a virgin, NN, then technically my husband is still a virgin too. Yeah . . . no. My husband isn't a virgin, technically or otherwise, and neither are you, NN. Your vagina might be a virgin, sure, but you're not."
–Dan Savage responds to a questioner who writes that because she (enthusiastically) engages in anal and oral sex, but not vaginal sex, she considers herself a virgin.